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Aye man, just tell her to fuck off and get hit by a garbage truck. That's what I did to my ex, hate that whore. Hope your dog gets better by the way! ^^
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Long story short, my mental health was severely declining in the latter half of last year, so much so that my therapist was recommending I go to a partial hospitalization program. Part of those mental health problems were conflicting feelings about the relationship, primarily because she required my emotional support constantly and I wasn’t sure my feelings were where they needed to be. When I told her I needed to go to the institution and that I needed a break from the relationship, she did not take it well at all. Literally the first thing she said was that she was jealous and she’s needed an institution for years. She was far more concerned with if she’d have a boyfriend at the end of the month than she was with whether or not I was okay. I also didn’t go to the institution immediately after I told her that because I was too paralyzed and anxious to do the paperwork and made the final decision, which she got VERY angry about. But I went and didn’t talk to her for the first three weeks of it, and in that time it became obvious what I had to do. So I went to her apartment and broke up with her in person, which went very poorly at first, but eventually she calmed down and we actually had a nice conversation. We agreed to keep the door open to being in each other’s lives however it made sense, and that I could take as much space as I needed. She started to violate that almost immediately. She was texting me constantly, growing increasingly aggressive and demanding of responses, to the point where I finally had to tell her to not contact me for three months. She called me over and over again until I picked up, and she said so many things to me that were completely over the line. I got pretty angry and said a couple things I’m not proud of, but it really was the lesser evil. She agreed to the three months, and I blocked her on everything. But not even a month later, she sent a scathing voice memo via her friend where she told me never to contact her again, and I responded through that friend relatively reasonably and said I was sorry for what I did wrong. And then just the other day, she violated my boundary again, because I guess she was the one who blocked me on twitter, so she unblocked me and hit me with a bunch of inflammatorily worded questions demanding an explanation for some of my actions. I gave her that, and told her some of the things she did wrong, and still fucking apologizing, but it wasn’t enough. She got really nasty, she was clearly just trying to hurt me and make me just as miserable as she was, so I blocked her.Wow your ex seems crazy. Like damn, what’s with her? If you don’t mind me asking, how did things even get that bad? My apologies if this is a dumb or uncomfortable question
Also fingers crossed your dog pulls through
Woah thanks for sharing. Yeah I’m speechless. Hope she doesn’t keep bothering youLong story short, my mental health was severely declining in the latter half of last year, so much so that my therapist was recommending I go to a partial hospitalization program. Part of those mental health problems were conflicting feelings about the relationship, primarily because she required my emotional support constantly and I wasn’t sure my feelings were where they needed to be. When I told her I needed to go to the institution and that I needed a break from the relationship, she did not take it well at all. Literally the first thing she said was that she was jealous and she’s needed an institution for years. She was far more concerned with if she’d have a boyfriend at the end of the month than she was with whether or not I was okay. I also didn’t go to the institution immediately after I told her that because I was too paralyzed and anxious to do the paperwork and made the final decision, which she got VERY angry about. But I went and didn’t talk to her for the first three weeks of it, and in that time it became obvious what I had to do. So I went to her apartment and broke up with her in person, which went very poorly at first, but eventually she calmed down and we actually had a nice conversation. We agreed to keep the door open to being in each other’s lives however it made sense, and that I could take as much space as I needed. She started to violate that almost immediately. She was texting me constantly, growing increasingly aggressive and demanding of responses, to the point where I finally had to tell her to not contact me for three months. She called me over and over again until I picked up, and she said so many things to me that were completely over the line. I got pretty angry and said a couple things I’m not proud of, but it really was the lesser evil. She agreed to the three months, and I blocked her on everything. But not even a month later, she sent a scathing voice memo via her friend where she told me never to contact her again, and I responded through that friend relatively reasonably and said I was sorry for what I did wrong. And then just the other day, she violated my boundary again, because I guess she was the one who blocked me on twitter, so she unblocked me and hit me with a bunch of inflammatorily worded questions demanding an explanation for some of my actions. I gave her that, and told her some of the things she did wrong, and still fucking apologizing, but it wasn’t enough. She got really nasty, she was clearly just trying to hurt me and make me just as miserable as she was, so I blocked her.
That ended up not really being a long story short, and that’s still a somewhat condensed version, but there you go. That’s how shit hit the fan, and then hit several other fans repeatedly.
Shit man, sorry to hear thatShe’s gone.
damn bro........it'll be alright nobody stays on this rock forever bud.She’s gone.
And yeah do datJust...get a restraining order or something man that bitch dont need ya. You're too good.
Although I don't know the legalistic parts of this, I think that that would also be the best course of action.Just...get a restraining order or something man that bitch dont need ya. You're too good.Also neat on the Guitar lesson