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Hm, I'd like to, but I don't think you can become DW Pals with someone unless you come across their house in the Dream World, and that is pretty random. Even if we exchange game codes, well become "Game Pals" in the Pokemon GL, but not "Dream Pals." I don't know why. If you figure out how it works, let me know and I'll be happy to become DW Pals with you.