And yes, I know, the lot of you are out there thinking "I'd never do this". And it's true. But believe me, ten, twenty years from now you will look back on your teenage years and there will be things you did that you hope nobody ever bring up again. Because your judgement will have grown sounder then, your mind more developped.
I'm sorry, but it seems a bit of a reach to describe raping someone and then bragging about it as just a "stupid teenage mistake." It just seems to trivialize what a huge and awful thing rape is.
There's no justification or rationalization for rape, no matter situation or age. period.
It's not a justification or rationalization; it remain a horrible crime.
But that does not alter the fact that what a person is, and will do, as a teenager, and what they are, and will do, as adults, are two entirely different things. People grow up in those years. They gain perspective. They change altogether. You should punish them for what they do, yes, but that punishment should account for the fact that they're not as ready to be responsible for their actions as others, and it should account for the fact that they WILL grow up.
And I'm sorry, but the notion that "This can't just be a teenage mistake" is risible, Jabber. Teenage mistakes don't stop at little things. Teenage mistake is a whole wide category of things people do because grasping the notion of responsibility for your own actions take time, and of how your actions impact others and cause them harm and pain take time. That's what teenage mistakes are all about.
Here, yes, they harmed someone., They harmed someone a lot. And they deserve punished for it. But even so, you still cannot pretend they were at adult-levvels of understandign of how what they did harmed the girl, because having a hard time relating to the harm you cause others" is one of the most fundamental aspects of teenage attitude.
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