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I don't hate it, even though getting one in Sapphire (my first game) was one of the biggest "Guite Dang It" moments in RPG gaming. I think, monster-catching-and-raising game-wise, it is the second hardest creature to get in any of those games, behind that beetle monster from Monster Rancher 2.