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The Bulbagarden Conversational Chat Thread Vol 4

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CrackFox

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Is it okay that I don't think I ever want to get married? Or have babies? (I might want to adopt at some point, but my womb is remaining empty forever if I can help it.)

I know this is a cliché thing to say when you're in your early twenties, but it feels like the older I get, the more intensely I feel these things. 23 is basically mid-twenties, right? And I still have no desire to do these things.

I don't know if it's weird or not. I ask myself that all the time. I feel exactly the same. I've never felt maternal towards babies or dreamt of becoming a mother. I'm not bothered about finding another boyfriend and I already know I don't want to get married. All my female friends are the opposite so I do feel weird sometimes.
 

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https://www.facebook.com/nick.neosquid

Whatever, add me. Stupid site. Don't message me on there unless you're ready to be ignored. I only have an account now for specific purposes, I don't plan to be active on there. I'll talk to you on here or Skype, very rarely will I accept otherwise.

Damn you, I wanted to use "Dark Lord Neosquid" as my name....
 

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Is it okay that I don't think I ever want to get married? Or have babies? (I might want to adopt at some point, but my womb is remaining empty forever if I can help it.)

I know this is a cliché thing to say when you're in your early twenties, but it feels like the older I get, the more intensely I feel these things. 23 is basically mid-twenties, right? And I still have no desire to do these things.

Yeah I know what you mean but that's because I want a solid career base before I have children. Getting married will not affect that at all.
 

Utsune

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I have no idea where to post this, but is there a reason why Erika is the banner for this forum?
 

Goodbye Blue Monday

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Is it okay that I don't think I ever want to get married? Or have babies? (I might want to adopt at some point, but my womb is remaining empty forever if I can help it.)

I know this is a cliché thing to say when you're in your early twenties, but it feels like the older I get, the more intensely I feel these things. 23 is basically mid-twenties, right? And I still have no desire to do these things.
I want to get married but not now. I just don't want to end up like my aunt. 40 something, lonely and miserable.

Just be careful love doesn't punch you in the face then hold a knife to your throat. You might find yourself doing a 180 degree turn.

Oh, I'm totally prepared for love changing my view on things.

But as others have put it, I've never been one of those girls to dream of a wedding or having babies. (As a little kid, actually, I would think that I wanted kids, but didn't see having a husband as important for that, and my career was still my main dream. Haha.) Also, re: ending up "40 something, lonely and miserable" - see, I've always been an extremely independent person, so "ending up alone" doesn't sound that dreary to me. As long as I'm getting laid, I don't care if I'm in a serious relationship.

Mostly now what I'm concerned about is changing the fact that I'm now a 23-year-old virgin, and not really about finding a boyfriend or girlfriend to "share my life with" because I'm fine just sharing my life with myself, thanks. There are certain habits you pick up when you've been single for a while and living alone for a while that you start to think, it would take someone really awesome for me to give that up.

On a completely unrelated note: It's almost 4/20, and I'm starting to regret that I haven't made better friends with my pothead neighbors. I need to commemorate this day in the right way!
 

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@Faye Valentine; Here's a suggestion. Smoke pot and do acid while listening to dubstep with strobe lights on and playing a bioshock game. That should be an interesting experience.
 

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I have no idea where to post this, but is there a reason why Erika is the banner for this forum?

I think you'd get a good answer if you ask one of the admins, users whose usernames are bold and italicised.
 

pokemoll

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I have no idea where to post this, but is there a reason why Erika is the banner for this forum?
I thought it was because the site's mascot is Bulbasaur and Erika is a grass-type gym leader, but I'm only guessing on that one. As Fab said, one of the admins would be able to give you a definite answer.

https://www.facebook.com/nick.neosquid

Whatever, add me. Stupid site. Don't message me on there unless you're ready to be ignored. I only have an account now for specific purposes, I don't plan to be active on there. I'll talk to you on here or Skype, very rarely will I accept otherwise.

Damn you, I wanted to use "Dark Lord Neosquid" as my name....
I added you. C'mon, Facebook isn't that bad! I'm probably only saying that because it's what I use to speak to my boyfriend, but I still think the sites pretty cool. Idk why everyone hates it.
 

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I don't like facebook because it gives you no choice on some thing you want to do. My mom uses it to talk to family and it forced her to update and now she can barley use it. I it would ask you if you wanted to update.
 

Rainami

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To be honest I exaggerate how much I hate Facebook, but I still don't like it.
 

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Same as ^.

I just performed a song with a couple of my friends at a band festival. :D
 

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Yeah, it was fun. It's the only time of year when we get to perform as a group. -w-
Oh, I see. How come you only get to perform as a group at that time of year? .w.

Speaking of groups, I found out me and my friend are going on a band course with a bunch of people who actually play guitar and drum well. We're doomed.
 

Shiny Celebi

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One hundred Pokemon is a lot I doubt I could make a blog like that but I say go for it.
 
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